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Understanding Child Trafficking- How to Protect Your Child and Prevent Child Sex Trafficking

Content in this post contains information and discussions of child sex trafficking and sexual abuse, which some readers may find triggering. If you need support at any time, please call National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673).

When I was 5 or 6, a young Kindergartner, my sister was home sick so I had to walk to and from school by myself. This was the late 80s where walking to school was the norm and stranger danger was just another lesson taught but not overly thought about. On my way home I was approached by a van and asked if I wanted some ice cream. I said no thank you. They then followed up with asking if I needed a ride home. I said no, that I couldn’t take rides from strangers, and then ran the rest of the way home.

I thought nothing of it back then, but knowing what I know now, I could have easily been a victim of trafficking then. That day could have been the last day my family ever saw me again, had I accepted the ride. Sure, they could have been a kind samaritan. We’ll never know. But I think of that day often now that I have my own children.

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The Invisible Crime

Also known as “The Invisible Crime”, human trafficking has been the major topic of discussion in news outlets, social media, and other platforms for the past few weeks. For instance, the conspiracy theory of Wayfair, using its site and high priced items for child trafficking. Week by week, more information keeps trickling down the pipe as it pertains to Jeffrey Epstein and his girlfriend, Ghislaine Maxwell and their connections to numerous celebrities and public figures. Secrets pertaining to their life of torture and assault of their victims are still coming in.

But don’t get it twisted. This isn’t something new. The fight against trafficking has been going on for quite some time. It’s just that recent news has shed more light on the disturbing issue that we’re facing. The invisible crime is considered invisible because it’s so common, yet so hard to prove because the victims don’t speak up or the criminals don’t confess.

So how can we stop it? How can we protect our children from being victims? Let’s dive in.

What is child sex trafficking?

“Child sex trafficking refers to the recruitment, harboring, transportation, provision, obtaining, patronizing, or soliciting of a minor for the purpose of a commercial sex act.” 

The United States Department of Justice

These disgusting criminals that are offenders of this crime are sometimes known as pimps. They often lure their victims in with the promise of food, shelter, clothing, attention, and/or a better life. Once the child has been lured in, the pimp will begin to engage the child into prostitution.

The trafficker will use forms of mental, emotional, and physical abuse to keep the child stuck in that life. In many cases drugs and alcohol are also used as a means of control. It is not uncommon for the the offender to use isolation as a way to further trap their victims. They may move away from their family and friends, change their appearance and their entire mindset.

Oftentimes, they are brainwashed to distrust law enforcement and made to think that everyone is against them or out to get them.

Who is at risk for child sex trafficking?

Unfortunately, no child of a certain race or gender is safe from being trafficked. But there are a few groups that are of higher risk:

  • Children who have already experienced childhood sexual abuse/rape. If the incident has gone unreported or was never dealt with and it resulted in the child being taken from the home.
  • Children that identify as LGBTQ and may have been kicked out of their home.
  • Runaways and frequent runaway children.
  • Children dealing with substance abuse or living with an individual battling substance abuse.
  • Having a history of date violence, child abuse, low self esteem and/or may be homeless.
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According to National Center for Safe Supportive Learning Environment, other “Possible risk factors associated with child trafficking include the following:

  • lack of personal safety
  • isolation
  • emotional distress
  • homelessness
  • poverty
  • family dysfunction
  • substance abuse
  • mental illness
  • learning disabilities
  • developmental delay
  • childhood sexual abuse
  • promotion of sexual exploitation by family members or peers
  • lack of social support”

“Today, the average age of child sex trafficking victims reported missing to NCMEC is only 15 years old.”

National Center for Missing & Exploited Children
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What are the signs of child trafficking?

Many times when a child has gone missing or found to be trafficked, the questions start pouring in. Where were the child’s parents? Why did no one see that something was wrong? How could no one have caught this? Well, there are signs, but sometimes they can be misinterpreted as something else. Regardless, here are some signs to look out for. If you see something off, don’t be afraid to say something.

  • Having a boyfriend or girlfriend who is very much older than them and seems to be very controlling.
  • You notice bruising or other signs of trauma on the victim.
  • The victim has inappropriate dress for the weather/seasons. Example: They’re wearing shorts, flip flops, and a tank in the winter months in very cold temperatures.
  • The victim may have many unexplained absences from school.
  • When you talk to them, their responses seem coached or rehearsed.
  • Displays signs of hunger or malnourishment.
  • May have items that seem well beyond their means. Ie, expensive purses, shoes, etc. or even large amounts of cash.
  • May try to hide scars, tattoos, or bruising

For a full list of risk factors, visit the National Center on Safe Supportive Learning Environments or National Center for Missing and Exploited Children

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Does this only happen in 3rd world countries?

Yea, you wish. Trafficking happens in every continent in every country. As a matter of fact, the United States happens to be one of the top destinations for child trafficking. We are a source and transit country, meaning that the United States is a country of origin where traffickers find their victims, and also a country that links between others to exchange their victims.

Transit countries are chosen for their location and one of the characteristics is having weak borders, a good proximation to their destination country, and typically an affiliation with organized crime and corruption in immigration. It’s no surprise then, that the most popular places of trafficking are California, Florida, New York, and Texas.

How do I keep my child safe?

One of the most important things you can do to keep your child safe from becoming a victim of child sex trafficking is to make sure the lines of communication are there. Make sure that your child understands and is comfortable with coming to you about anything.

Be open and honest with them about the dangers of trafficking. Be clear about the dangers of traffickers and internet usage. Explain why privacy on social media is important and how virtual friendships aren’t always what they seem.

Know your child’s friends and their whereabouts. Monitor what they do and who they talk to on the internet. Above all else, go with your intuition.

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How do I talk to my child about trafficking?

Understandably, this is a very difficult topic to start a conversation about. They key is to be well informed and to offer a safe environment where they’re able to ask questions. To do this, educate yourself on this issue and learn the warning signs. Try to touch on these key points:

  • Don’t accept friend requests on social media from people you don’t know.
  • Don’t reveal too much about yourself (What school you go to, your address/city and state, full name, other personal information)
  • Never meet someone you don’t know without talking with a trusted adult.
  • If at any point you feel uncomfortable in a situation, tell an adult you trust to help guide you.

How can I help stop trafficking?

Even though child trafficking has been going on forever, it wasn’t until the year 2000 that the United States Government and the United Nations, recognized it as a crime. In doing this, more light was shed on the subject and more people started to recognize exploited children. So how can we put an end to this travesty?

Be a voice: Contact your elected officials. Let them know how much of an issue this is and how important it is to you. Keep writing. Keep calling. Don’t stop until they make a move.

Spread the word: Speak out, whether on social media or other public forums. Let your voice be heard and and educate those around you about trafficking.

Get involved: Donate to a local or national organization with a mission to stop trafficking and help trafficked victims and survivors. Volunteer at a local organization.

I think a child is being trafficked. What do I do?

If you suspect someone is being trafficked you can contact one of the helpful resources.

You can report missing children or child pornography to the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) at 1-800-THE-LOST or use the Cybertipline to report a child being exploited online.

Helpful Resources

Children in immediate danger 1-800-THE-LOSTNational Center for Missing & Exploited Children
Missing Children Help Center 1-800-872-5437Missing Children Help Center
National Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-4-A-CHILD (422-4453)Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline
National Sexual Assault Hotline 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)National Sexual Assault Hotline
Stop it Now! 1-888-PREVENTStop it Now!

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4 thoughts on “Understanding Child Trafficking- How to Protect Your Child and Prevent Child Sex Trafficking”

  1. Child Trafficking is something very much scary to me and only for that reason i have become an overprotective mother…it is so terrible…

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